SUNDAY BITES 026
Elotes in hand, carajillo in the other—plus a full Mexico City list, a Japan-in-a-box obsession, and clothes that work when your brain and body are both melting
I’m honestly so overwhelmed (in the good way) by your responses to my last piece on creativity. It’s easy to feel like you’re spiraling solo sometimes—but your DMs and emails reminded me (as cheesy as it sounds) that none of us are actually doing this alone. We’re in it. Together. In the group chat, in the chaos, in the late-night overthinking.
Lately, I’ve been asking myself what still brings me joy, what sparks curiosity, and—naturally—I ended up re-listening to my chat with
. She’s a brilliant, hilarious force: a mom, entrepreneur, and author who left New York for Paris and found Joie de Vivre. And honestly? Everything she said hits even harder now. If you haven’t already, do yourself a favor and give it a listenBIOHACKING FOR DUMMIES
Having kids will really mess with your sense of mortality. One day you’re thriving on caffeine and vibes, the next you’re Googling “is back pain normal at 35” and whispering the word premenopause like it’s Voldemort.
I’ve been hearing a lot about biohacking lately—but most of it sounds like it’s for tech bros named Chad with IV drips and a standing desk in every room.
So I called in
—a real, human optimization coach who’s here to break it all down: what’s worth paying attention to, what we can skip, and how to actually feel better in a body that’s, you know… aging.If you’re trying to live longer and better, this one’s for you.
We’re going live Friday at 10am. Drop any questions in the chat or comments—yes, even the ones you think are too basic.
TRAVELING WITH KIDS HACKS
Also: I did it. I ripped off the Band-Aid and booked a trip to Europe… with two kids… and no nanny. Please pray for us. And send tips. (Seriously—hit reply and tell me everything that’s worked for you when traveling with little ones.) I’m working on a master list of travel-with-kids hacks, and I promise to share it with all of you once it’s out of survival mode and into helpful-resource mode.
BABY TAMALE FEET
Oh—and not sure who needs to hear this, but Havaianas makes baby flip-flops. I am not well. Baby tamale feet in tiny flip-flops?? Nothing better. And since everyone’s declaring flip-flops the official shoe of the summer, I just want to make sure your baby isn’t left out.
I’m currently in Mexico City on a last-minute work trip—doing a very special project with one of my longtime clients (and one of my favorite brands): The Bóveda. Can’t wait to show you what we’ve been working on. More soon.
On that note, people have been asking me for my Mexico City recs lately. I don’t know about you, but I keep lists in my Notes app for every city I visit. Below is my CDMX go-to list—updated, curated, and actually good. Screenshot it. Copy-paste it. Forward it to your cousin. I stand by every address.
JAPAN IN A BOX
My friends Harvey and Richard are the pickiest people I know—in the best way. The kind of people who will obsess over a soy sauce brand for weeks and debate the exact angle of a chopstick rest. They spent last year touring Japan, meticulously hunting down the best of the best. And if you’ve ever been to Japan without speaking the language, you know that’s no small feat.
This box is the result. A labor of love. A masterclass in taste. And honestly? The next best thing if, like me, you’re not hopping on a flight to Tokyo anytime soon.
Enjoy—no passport required. Just chopsticks, curiosity, and maybe a nice cold yuzu soda.
HEATWAVE APPROVED CLOTHES
Lately, I’ve been obsessed with easy, breathable cotton pieces that make summer dressing feel less like a chore. Enter: CouCou Intimates. Soft, well-priced, and honestly all I want to wear right now. I’m trying to pack for a holiday stretch that includes Greece—so I’m on the hunt for pieces that are cute enough to feel like myself, comfortable enough to chase after kids, and compact enough to fit into a carry-on. Currently eyeing this dress (midi version if you are not into minis ). This cami, and these shorts as potential pajamas/beach-things/life-uniforms. Might write a whole separate essay on “what to pack when your body feels weird but your taste still slaps.”
Sales corner!
The Saks sale is popping. (Yes, I said popping. Deal with it.) Up to 70% off. Which means I might finally pull the trigger on that Khaite blazer I won’t shut up about. If you’re on the hunt for a pretty summer dress that works for dinners or day weddings—this one is it. And if you, unlike me, have more weddings this summer: this black dress is a strong contender. Plus This suede jacket is gold.
Also: if you know me, you know I live in Doen. Their annual warehouse sale is live. In my cart: this crochet skirt, this lace one, and these sandals that might be my new summer staples. I’ve been wearing this skirt on repeat since January and it’s finally on sale—so now’s the time.
DISCOUNT CODES:
MILKTEETH – ZILLIONTRILLION15 (through July 31)
U BEAUTY – FUENTE20
MERLETTE – VDLF15
CO – VICTORIA15
Okay, I’m off to enjoy my final 24 hours in Mexico City—stuffing my face with elotes, carajillos, mangos enchilados and MORE….
Besos,
Victoria
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