Can We Stop Pretending the Kids Should Always Come First?

Go on—admit it. You like your kids more than your partner right now

I had one of those conversations recently that made me wonder if I’m actually the crazy one. A friend casually mentioned she hadn’t had sex with her husband in over a year and said it like it was totally normal—like sexless marriage is just part of the package you sign up for with kids.

So I told her the truth—my truth, anyway: that in my house, my husba…